Friday, March 30, 2007

Mental Health Tip of the Week: for the "ADD" in us all!


For the "attention deficit" in all of us...
Whether you truly have "ADD" (attention deficit disorder) or just have a case of "life in the fast lane," many of these tips may be helpful to you!

First, do any of these characteristics sound familiar?

  • A short attention span, especially for mundane day-to-day activities.
  • Enthusiastic beginnings with interest dwindling before completion; poor follow through.
  • Tendency toward impulsive behavior. Tend to make decisions before carefully thinking through the consequences.
  • Make repeated careless mistakes on the job.
  • Might change jobs frequently.
  • May have trouble managing money. Tend to overspend and disregard a budget.
  • Communication skills are limited. Have difficulty listening, tend to interrupt conversations, and speak without considering the possible reaction of others.
  • May have difficulty controlling temper.
  • Tend to have a low frustration tolerance.
  • Generally disorganized; frequently running late; rushed and unprepared.
  • Tendency to over commit themselves.
  • Problems with time management; have difficulty estimating how long a task might take.
  • Have difficulty prioritizing.
Because many adults in today's busy society suffer from disorganization, forgetfulness, and a lack of productivity, here are some suggested organizational tools that may be helpful:
  • Keep a daily "to do" list (carry it with you).
  • Keep a planning calendar.
  • Put notepads wherever you do your best thinking and jot down your ideas.
  • Try a cassette recorder for remembering ideas if that works better than notepads.
  • Put schedules, "to do" lists, and appointments where you can see them at home and in the office.
  • Learn and practice time management skills.
  • Break down large projects into smaller, more manageable ones.
  • Set up a reward system. When you attain a goal you have set, reward yourself. Don't overlook the small accomplishments—they add up to big ones.
It is important to find a supportive environment where individuals can learn to see their strengths and improve their social skills, stress management strategies, relaxation techniques, and perhaps anger control.

Other strategies that might be helpful:

  • Maintain or develop a sense of humor (a sense of humor goes a long way, laughter is an excellent "medicine"!).
  • Eliminate negative self-talk (believe it or not, our thoughts and self-talk "create" our reality).
  • Get regular exercise (even the simplest form, a short walk in the fresh air works wonders).
  • Find healthy ways to be involved in highly stimulating activities (this can reduce the urge to spontaneously create negative excitement if things get too boring).
  • Learn and practice effective communication skills.
  • Seek out individuals who will provide feedback on your efforts to implement these strategies. These individuals need to be supportive, encouraging, and have a sense of humor.

Any other thoughts? Feel free to share them here!

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